Some tips and advice please...?

I am still undecided about coming out to everyone at school. I am for sure gay, and people sometimes ask me this. I feel I am ready, but am still not sure about other people's reactions. I am of course ready for all the crap people will give me, but not exactly sure how it will all play out. Is there anyone with advice about the do's/dont's on this? Or maybe the upsides/downsides of doing this?Some tips and advice please...?
your in a western country buddy, so your safe, because parents think they're super parents if they ';love you for who you are';





and if you hate the concept of homosexuality your ';narrow minded';





so just say it, no one will care, and if they do well suck it up if your so proud to be queer, otherwise try to change it





i mean tons of people that are gay still say its a 'life style choice'; i.e a preference





and its ironically the only thing where it cant be generalised, i mean are you saying only SOME chose to be gay and the rest were born like that? lol





besides I kinda agree , because its in the mind, its not a physical thing, you can't see it.





I mean what if you fell in love with a guy and made out with them and about to have sex with them but it turned out to be a women?.....do you dump them because they don't have a penis? not to mention how did you get it so wrong? homosexuality may not really exist your just 'hard-wired' to find 'males' more attractive and sexier





maybe if you tried anal sex with a girl you may discover you don't have to be gay after all, or get a girl to dress like a dude up.





if you think this is offensive and you can't change or won't change then there's no advice....i mean what can you do? you can't make people except it, just like they cant make you change right? remember its a two way street buddy.





as for upsides/downsides





PROS: you get if off your chest and feel free


CONS: your still at school and you might cop crap, is it worth taking it? because people can get bullied enough to explode and kill you know.Some tips and advice please...?
I'd say you're ready to tell them. 1) you are for sure.. and 2) you are ready to suffer the slings, arrows, and acceptance that comes from telling others.


I would stick to telling those who are close to you. Those are the important ones, everyone else is on a ';need-to-know'; status.


The upside is the relief of living life honestly, the downside you have already experienced, and it won't go away, but you will have the firm foundation of living your life as an honest man.
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First off tell someone that you're really close to . Someone that you know won't tell anyone your secret. But you say you're really for the crap then just let it be known you are who you are. But you have to have friends that will be there for you because being a guy you'll proably get bashed. Being a girl people will reject you make your life hell unless you know how to deal. you have to have support. But after dealing with all that **** you'll be proud to be you.
Keep it to yourself. You're more than a label about your sexual preference.